大雪打乱了婚礼的计划,但是菲比还是穿着婚纱走进了冰天雪地,虽然冷得发抖,但菲比笑容足够照见春暖花开:
“When I was growing up, I didn't have a normal mom and dad, or a regular family like everybody else, and I always knew that something was missing. But now I'm standing here today, knowing that I have everything I'm ever gonna need…… You are my family.
在我成长的过程中,我不曾拥有真正的父爱和母爱,或者和别人一样拥有一个正常的家庭,我总觉得自己缺少了些什么。然而现在,我站在这里,我知道自己已经得到了自己所需要的一切……你就是我的家。”
诗人席慕蓉也好,《傅雷家书》里的那个傅聪也好,总爱提到“初心”这个词,大概和童心和赤子之心的感觉差不多,在《老友记》中我总看见他们像长不大的孩子,保有那片初心如刚绽出水面的莲花,兀自亭亭,洁净美好,无论那些发型、那些服饰,看上去多么的老土可笑。